Saturday Serenity: Carrying Kindness

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One of my favorite topics to write about is kindness.  The post I did last November called, “Sunday Serenity:  A Little Bit of Kindness Does Matter” was an experience that I still cherish and yet I could have missed this ‘kindness opportunity’ had I simply continued to scurry along in my quest to get home. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in our own little worlds that it’s extremely easy to miss the opportunities to show kindness to others.  I have often heard people talk about showing kindness to others, but that they didn’t receive any in return from that person.

Here is what I think:  I feel that the actual act of kindness in and of itself is what is important.  It isn’t necessarily a ‘must have’ to experience reciprocation from the individual with whom you shared a kindness moment.  When you are kind to others, the feeling you get is priceless, don’t you think? But here’s something else I’ve learned about showing kindness to others:  you always get it returned to you in some form or another.  I really do see it as a boomerang effect.  “Putting kindness out there”, so to speak, seems to echo right back to you.

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I try to practice kindness every single day.  Sometimes I look for ways to be kind, while other times it shows up for me.  Case in point:

Some of the train stops in Chicago have elevators to get to the elevated platforms.  Some do not.  The stop closest to me happens to be the latter.  Making your way up a long flight of stairs can be a bit taxing if you are also hauling bags, groceries, or whatever to the top of a 20-step staircase.

The other day I was making my way up those steps, when I saw an older woman half-way up the staircase struggling with a small suitcase in one hand, and a large, overfilled bag in the other.  I caught up to her and said, “Can I help you with this bag?” She looked a bit startled and relieved at the same time.  She nodded and I added, “I’ll just carry this suitcase up for you, okay?” The woman again nodded as I made my way up to the train platform.

Once we were both standing at the top of the stairs I handed her the bag; with a wide smile she said this to me:  “Thank you………..Happy Day!” I began to grin as I replied, “Happy Day!” I realized that she wasn’t fluent in English, and yet she seemed to quickly search for words that expressed her gratitude for my assistance.

I continued to smile as I waited for my train (hers was going in the opposite direction).  The feeling that washed over me was complete and utter gratitude from this dear soul’s, “Happy Day” remark.  “Carrying kindness” for me was not only literal (carrying her suitcase) but I “carried kindness” with me for the entire day thinking about the, “Happy Day” sentiment, and how kind those words felt.

And so, on this rainy, foggy, chilly day here in Chicago, I hope you find yourself ‘carrying kindness’ today, whether in suitcase form, or with a gentle smile to a passerby.

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  23 comments for “Saturday Serenity: Carrying Kindness

  1. Lana
    April 14, 2018 at 10:43 am

    First thing this morning I offered and took a photo of a family as the guy was taking his wife and child – shame not to be in the shot 🙂 Happy day indeed

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    • April 14, 2018 at 1:55 pm

      Ah, that was so nice of you! LOL Yes, I think they should have included you in at least one! LOL Cher xo

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  2. April 14, 2018 at 11:25 am

    Reblogged this on It Is What It Is and commented:
    Beautiful photos … amazing message!!

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  3. April 14, 2018 at 11:34 am

    I like that “Happy Day”! Isn’t the true act of kindness, really about the act itself, and not what you get in return. I love this post!!!

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    • April 14, 2018 at 1:56 pm

      Hi SD! Yes, that is precisely how I feel, too! Why thank you so much! I really appreciate that! Cher xo

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  4. April 14, 2018 at 1:33 pm

    You’re the epitome! ♥

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    • April 14, 2018 at 1:56 pm

      Oh dear Billy Ray! That is extremely kind and thoughtful of you to say! I would like to add, “Right back at YOU!” Thank you! Cher xo


  5. April 14, 2018 at 4:39 pm

    Thank you for this wonderful example, Cher! It is so easy to create a Happy Day – for others and therefore at the same time for ourselves.

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    • April 14, 2018 at 7:32 pm

      Thank you so much, dear Erika! I just love how you said that! Yes, for both us and others at the same time!! 🙂 Cher xo

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  6. RMW
    April 15, 2018 at 10:12 am

    I could well be that lady needing a helping hand with my bag!

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  7. April 15, 2018 at 5:02 pm

    Beautiful and heartwarming.

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  8. May 9, 2018 at 6:45 pm

    Your beautiful soul shines through, Cher. I love this story 🙂 And I am certain she allowed you to take her bag because she could feel your sweet spirit!

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    • May 9, 2018 at 8:00 pm

      Well Lorrie how incredible kind and thoughtful of you to say! Thank you sooooo much! I felt so overwhelmed when this dear woman looked at me and said, “Happy Day”! It was indeed, Lorrie! Thank you! Cher xo

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